Brian to Brenda
A wellness and feminine journy
Tag: BrendaCarr
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There was a day in my past when I decided simply to be Brenda.The outfit came together like a quiet celebration: an Alfred Dunner green-and-white flowered blazer, crisp white pants, wedge white sandals, pink polished toes peeking out, and a cute little purse. Sunglasses in hand, I felt complete.I went back to the Penneys where…
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SobrietyThis past week brought a tough setback. After nearly a week alcohol-free, I relapsed last Thursday night and got very drunk. My new sobriety date is December 5, 2025, at 1:00am. The following Friday was brutal—I was so hungover I couldn’t function. It was one of the worst experiences I’ve had in a long time,…
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On Dec 5, 2025, I recommitted to sobriety while celebrating a Flickr Explore feature in my lighter green pantsuit and black slingback pumps. A mix of odd stares and affirming double looks reminded me I am still valid, still becoming, and still seen.
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This photo always generates comments. “Too pink.” “Too dainty.” And maybe it is. But for me, it represents one of the most affirming nights of my life — the moment when Brenda wasn’t just a look, but a woman desired.I was online in this outfit — soft rose pants, floral scarf, white heels with a…
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Tonight, I embark on a transformative journey, resetting my sobriety, health, and mindset. For years, I’ve lived as both Brian Gladstone and Brenda Carr. This blog documents my transition towards embracing Brenda’s identity, focusing on wellness, confidence, and authenticity, while inspiring others on similar paths. Join me in this endeavor.
Brian to Brenda 