About Me
I am Brenda Carr, a woman emerging from the identity of Brian Gladstone into the fullness of my true self. What began as quiet sparks of discovery—painting my nails, slipping into Gloria Vanderbilt jeans, and finding joy in ballet slippers—has grown into a lifelong journey of transformation, authenticity, and feminine devotion.
This evolution is not just about changing names; it is about embracing the woman I have always been. Through wellness, sobriety, and self‑care rituals, I honor my body and spirit. Each milestone—whether tracking my weight, curating elegant outfits, or celebrating beauty rituals—marks another step in becoming Brenda, fully and unapologetically.
Guided by mentors like Coach Bill and Coach Lisa, I ritualize progress with clarity and discipline. My fashion choices—tailored suits, flowing skirts, and knee‑high boots—reflect not only my style but also my vision of feminine polarity: graceful, nurturing, and deeply romantic.
This blog is my open journal, documenting my emergence from Brian Gladstone into Brenda Carr. It is a space where I share my journey from size 22W toward size 14, from old habits into sobriety, and from private reflection into public inspiration. My hope is to encourage others to embrace their own transformation with patience, elegance, and devotion.
Brian to Brenda 